Dear McKoy: Secretive Wife I sat down with my wife yesterday to discuss about having her tubes tied and she told me that it was already done right after we had our son. I was so upset that I left home. Am I just being stupid about the entire situation? I mean, I wanted her to tie her tubes but I wanted the two of us to make the decision. I felt betrayed.
Dear Betrayed Husband,
We can understand how you felt betrayed by the entire situation, but is it really not necessary to stay upset with your wife. She may have gone behind your back but she handled the situation.
We’d recommend sitting down with her and letting her know how much her actions affected you. We are sure she will understand how you feel.