My husband and I were having an argument and he kicked me in my vagina and I feel like it was damaged. We haven’t spoken since the incident and I’m not sure if I’m ever going to talk to him again. I may even get a divorce. I have been staying with my sister since it happened and she says I need to forgive him. It’s hard to forgive physical abuse. He’s tried calling me but I’m not interested. My vagina still hurts. This is the first time he has ever put his hands on me. I want to know what you think about the matter. Thankfully we don’t have any children. Please advise.
There’s no excuse for physical abuse. Take as much time as you need to heal and don’t feel obligated to go back to him if you don’t want to. If you want, you can always seek counsel.