“I have been married to my husband for 4 years and we are enjoying our married lives. We have not yet decided to have children but his mother keeps terrorizing me.
We have both told her that we are not ready to have kids but she keeps pushing me.
Do you think I should ask my husband to have her leave me alone? Or do you think I should just tell her to back off?”
Response: Both of you need to sit her down together and let her know, you’re adults and you will be responsible for the child. Therefore, she needs to respect your decision and stay out of your bedroom.
We allow way too much outside interference into our relationships and most times than not, it ends up contributing to its demise.