Dear McKoy: Im dating a married man and dont know how to end it. I found out he was married when his wife called me, crying her eyes out. Turns out she stumbled upon our messages. By that point, we’d been seeing each other for a year. She even sent me pics of their two kids, aged five and three. I was totally blindsided and felt like crap. The bombshell left me feeling sick to my stomach, so I called it quits.
After she spilled the beans, we didn’t talk for two months. Then, out of the blue, he showed up at my door, swearing he couldn’t live without me. He seemed genuine, and I gave in to him.
I’m torn. My feelings for him are intense, but I know this whole situation is a mess. He poured his heart out to me in bed, saying I’m his dream girl and he loves me more than his wife. Yet, when push comes to shove, he always heads back to her.
So, there’s this new guy who’s been eyeing me up lately. He is charming and he swears he’s single. We hung out at his place a few times, but we haven’t gotten down and dirty… yet. Meanwhile, I’ve got this married man lingering in my life, and I’m itching to kick him to the curb. But, honestly, I’m stuck. I just can’t seem to muster the guts to cut him loose. I need some advice, ASAP.”
A. S.
Dear A.S. – It’s clear that you’re in a tough spot, but it’s important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness. Despite his declarations of love, his actions indicate otherwise, as he continues to return to his wife.

