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Dear McKoy: Tired of my Monster-in-law

Dear McKoy, “I have been married to my husband for 4 years and we are enjoying our married lives. We have not yet decided to have children but his mother keeps terrorizing me. We have both told her that we are not ready to have kids but she keeps pushing me. Do you think I […]

Marriage-Proposal

Dear McKoy: Getting Cold Feet Before My Wedding

Dear McKoy, “I am getting married to the love of my life in a week and three days. We have been planning our wedding for about 2 years now. The problem is I am not sure if we should get married. I am getting cold feet. Do you think I should speak with him? Should […]

Pregnant

Dear McKoy: Sixteen and Pregnant

Sixteen and Pregnant   Dear McKoy, “I am a 16 year old female and I am pregnant. The problem is that I am pregnant with my sister’s husband’s child. My sister and I grew up very close and I feel bad. Her husband has always been nice to me, ever since we first met. He […]

Stripper

Dear McKoy: Stripper by Night Businesswoman by Day

Dear McKoy, “I am a successful woman, I have everything any woman to would want. I have been married for 4 years and I am happy. About a year ago my husband got caught up in some gambling debt and he was unable to pay back. They threatened to kill him and I was not […]

Worried

Dear McKoy: Not his Kids

Not His Kids Dear McKoy, I am a big fan of your site and I desperately need your help. I have been married to my husband for 17 years and we have four amazing kids together. Well technically, not together as they are not really his kids. The truth is they are my twin brother’s […]

Mother

Failing Miserably as a Mom

Failing Miserably as a Mom Dear McKoy, I am a 20-year-old woman and I recently gave birth to my first child. I always wanted to be a mother ever since I was a little girl but it is not what I had expected it to be. I’m financially stable as my daughter lacks nothing, but […]

In Love with Someone I Don't Know Dear McKoy, "I am a 24-year-old successful black woman and in the past, I have had experience with some trifling black men. My experience with black men has led me to stop dating them. I have been cheated on, abused and mistreated.

Dear McKoy: In Love with Someone I Don’t Know

In Love with Someone I Don’t Know Dear McKoy, “I am a 24-year-old successful black woman and in the past, I have had experience with some trifling black men. My experience with black men has led me to stop dating them. I have been cheated on, abused and mistreated. Over the past year, I started […]

Black-Girl

Dear McKoy: Trying to be a Home-Wrecker

Trying to be a Home-Wrecker Dear McKoy, “I was dating a guy who I found out was married with three kids after we had been seeing each other for 2 1/2 years. I was pissed but it did not matter to me, I just wanted to be with him and have his babies. He decided […]

Kadian Clarke: Westmoreland Teenager Girl Missing From Bed

Dear McKoy: My Best Friend’s Girl has a Secret Life

My Best Friend’s Girl has a Secret Life Dear McKoy, “My best friend has been in a relationship with a girl for 5 years now and we have been really good friends ever since we started double dating. Recently they seemed to be going through difficulties as his girl has become distant. I was at […]

Torn Between my Degree and Pregnancy

Dear McKoy: Torn Between my Degree and Pregnancy

Torn Between my Degree and Pregnancy Dear McKoy, I have been studying really hard to finish my university degree, but I recently went to the doctor and I found out I am two months pregnant. I have been wondering how I am going to manage life with my husband, a baby and school. I am afraid […]

Fake-Degree

Dear McKoy: I May Lose My Job Because of My Fake Business Degree

I May Lose My Job Because of My Fake Business Degree Dear McKoy, I am a  28 years old woman. I have graduated university with first class honours and a degree in Business. My problem is that I don’t understand the first thing that I am doing. The truth is, I paid my way through […]

underwear

Dear McKoy: My Lover’s Girlfriend Found My Underwear at His House

My Lover’s Girlfriend Found My Underwear at His House Dear McKoy, “I am cheating on my boyfriend with his best friend. His girlfriend and I are also close friends as well. Couple days ago she found my panty at their house and called me asking to help her find the woman he is cheating with and […]