I will call myself T.E. I am 27 and I use to work at a prominent financial institution but I got laid off and everything thing came tumbling down as the months went by.
I don’t know who is the father and I’ve done so many abortions in the past I’m afraid to do anymore so I have to carry this child. What do I say to this man and how do I tell the other two men who are married? Please I feel like I’m going crazy.
T.E when faced with a challenging situation, depending on the individual the solutions may vary. I’m no religious leader so I’m not here to scold you. The first thing I suggest is for you to get HIV/Aids and STD tests are done to know your health profile. In most cases, honesty is always the best policy.
You can either
(1) Let him know your pregnant and he is not the only one you’ve been having unprotected sex with and you have been hiding your second life from him. (full disclosure)(2) let him know you are pregnant and you are not sure if it’s his child because you have been unfaithful. (if you are worried about your business becoming a scandal or if you both haven’t developed that level of trust and open communication).
The child deserves a good upbringing with or without a father.
STD/STI positive or negative please to practice safe sex and protection. Your health is priceless.
In the meantime, I urge you to push and fight to get yourself in a safer space with good earning potential.
All the best and stay safe