Dear McKoy: I have been sleeping with my father-in-law for about two months and I think I might be pregnant. My boyfriend (his son) and I have been trying to have a baby for the longest time but it has been unsuccessful. I am scared to do a test but all the symptoms are there and I really don’t want my boyfriend to leave me. I only started having sex with his dad because of the money and he’s more attractive to me, but I want a life with my man. I haven’t told him I think I’m pregnant yet, but if his wife and my boyfriend find out, we’re gonna be in serious trouble. I became too addicted to the sex and started having sex with him raw because it felt much better. What should I do? I’m so confused.
Dear G.B.: First, you need to brave up and get a pregnancy test done. If you are pregnant, the smart thing to do would be, be honest. In the long run, the truth always comes out. I hope you’ve learnt a very valuable lesson and understand that being sneaky and careless never pays off. I would like a follow-up on this story. In the meantime, please be safe and get tested.