Dear Mckoy: I marry my husband for 4 years now. Things were going good in the first 2 years, then it just started go down hill. We argue over everything. He says he doesn’t like the church I am attending.
One day pastor call me up and ask how I look so sad and I tell him about my marriage problems and how he wanted me to stop going to that church. Pastor advice me to stop giving him sex because him is a open door for Satan to come in my life. I stop giving him sex and it look like it worse cause him move into the next room. I tell Pastor and him seh him soon come back. I see a girl coming by the gate to see him sometimes then he tell me he is moving out and want divorce. Him seh I must guh married and sex my pastor.
Dear Anonymous: This is an unfortunate story; what Pastor would tell a wife to withhold sex from her husband? The Bible in 1st Corinthians 7:5 states, “Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”
You and your husband needs to go on a getaway and talk about the issues, if not get a good marriage counselor. All the best.
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