I was having sex with my man and he asked me to finger his anus in order to cum. He never made such a weird request before and I was kinda turned off because the smell is not nice. I did it for about a minute until I felt like he wanted to defecate so I pulled out quickly (how ironic) and he orgasmed so heavily. I had never seen him like that. I do not know how to feel about it. I don’t know where he developed such a weird fetish but I do not like it. We have not had sex since and I’m not interested. Do you think I’m wrong?
You can’t ignore the elephant in the room forever. Please talk to him when you are ready. Seek clarity and find a common ground. I hope this all works out.