Dear McKoy: My boyfriend keeps throwing away my dildos– I have never been a cheater, so hen my man is away, I just use sex toys on myself. He is known to take extended business trips and I respect him that much to not step out and seek pleasure elsewhere. I buy all sorts of sex toys to have my own fun but each time, he destroys or throws them away then cusses about how he hates it. My thing is, why not be grateful I’m using those than another man? We have had way too many arguments about this and he is not trying to see my point of view. I am going to buy another one this weekend because this is irrational. Tell me your thoughts.
L.N.
Dear L.N.,
Perhaps sex toys make him feel like he is not performing up to standard, it’s an ego thing. What you should do is talk to him about it gently so both of you can understand each other’s perspectives. I hope this helps.
McKoy
Feeding Programme – Le Antonio’s Foundation
