Dear Mckoy: My boss gave me an STD – I am a married woman of three years but I don’t know why I allowed the devil to make me enter an affair with my boss. It was great cause I got a promotion, which meant more money and any other little thing I needed. Again, I didn’t have to do this because my husband still takes care of me even though I work.
My boss and I usually use protection, but one particular night we were in his car and got caught up in the heat of the moment. No condom was used and trust me, that was the best sex of my life.
This wicked, lying man just forgot to tell me he had herpes now I have it and I am afraid to tell my husband. When it is time to have children and he wants to have raw sex, what do I say? I have been so stressed out because this is an unforgivable act, I know.
I love my husband and wanted a family badly but I feel like I ruined everything. I’m barely eating or sleeping and my man is wondering what the matter is but I keep telling him it’s a work problem- he just does not know what type of “problem” it is.
I have stopped talking to my boss on that level and the only reason I don’t quit is to not make things look suspicious. Help!
Your boss can be prosecuted for knowingly infecting you but I really cannot say I feel sorry you for disrespecting your marriage like that.
You need to be honest with your husband. It is the best thing you can do right now. Whatever consequences follow, will have to be dealt with.
I hope this has been a very good lesson for you. Life is not over. Make sure to take your medications and be responsible if having sex with anyone else.
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