I do not feel any attraction towards my husband anymore and I do not know how to tell him. I do not even “get wet” when he tries to have sex with me so he had to buy lubricant. I can see that he feels a way about it but I genuinely cannot help myself. My husband has a huge ego so this is challenging it. He is a decent person. We rarely ever fight and he fulfills his roles as a husband. I’m not sure what it is. It is not like I am cheating or anything. I feel bad for tearing our home apart; that was never my intention. I just do not know how to handle this. Please tell me what you think I can do in this situation.
You can always seek counseling or different methods of reigniting the spark in your marriage. If you’ve been married for a long time, that honeymoon phase can dwindle. It is up to you to try and preserve it. It is a team effort that both of you have to work on together.