Dear McKoy: I Think My Nanny is Sleeping with My Husband – I am writing this because I don’t want to act irrationally and hurt my nanny. I believe she is having an affair with my husband but every time I try to confront him about it, he brushes it off. They have gotten super close and I have caught them in rooms by themselves. Our son has even called her mommy and I was really taken aback by it. I feel so powerless in my own home and honestly, I don’t play about what’s mine. I am thinking about framing her for stealing so we can have a good reason to fire her without any repercussions. When I say this lady has gotten close to my man, I mean, she has even started cooking for him and ironing when we have a helper for that purpose! What do you think I should do?
Dear R.L.: Your husband is the only one obligated to you here so you need to let him know how serious you are about having this conversation. If they are having an affair, he’s the only one who actually has to answer to you. Let him know that if he doesn’t talk to you, the marriage will be in a very rocky place. Put your foot down and do not allow him to mow over you. All the best.