He and my sister have been married for 12 years.What my sister and the rest of the family doesn’t know is that my 7 years old child is for my sister’s husband, but we kept it as a secret between the two of us.Now the problem is my child started asking questions about the father wear about and I keep avoiding the question because I’m not sure what or how to explain it without my sister and the rest of the family finding out.
I’m not sure what to do.
Di, Montego Bay.
I must say your situation seems to be a very unfortunate one. But regardless of the outcome. The child has a right to know who its father is.
I would suggest you discuss the matter with the father and you both decide how best you can approach the matter explaining to the child and at the same time be prepared for the outcome of your sister finding out and the breaking up of your family and the void it may cause between you and your sister.